Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Blogging an I-chat with Jesse

Jesse (Chris's son) and I did not breakup. Jesse is in Gravina, Italy on an archeological dig this summer. Prior to leaving for Italy, Jesse stayed at Chris's house for about 5 weeks. When he finally left for Italy, Jesse left behind enough filth and kitchen trauma that Chris may still be digging out of the mess.

I met Jesse when he was 13 years old. He has Marfan's syndrome and stands about 6'8" tall. He is rail thin. (My idol!) His mom died a few months prior to our meeting. The family was still so traumatized by her death. Jesse didn't think much of me at the time. He once told me, "You'll never be part of this family!" (Maybe he was right.) He's going into his sophomore year at BU. He may be your run-of-the-mill, typical slob teenager and occasionally icky, he's a great kid, growing into a young man. He wants to teach, be a professor. He's funny and likes my jokes. That makes him high on my list.

I chatted with Jesse today on Facebook. It was great to hear from him.

Jesse

yo

10:07amPOD

omg!

hi

where are you

10:07amJesse

haha

in a bar

10:07amPOD

haha

boozer!

10:07amJesse

its 19:07 here

free internet

10:07amPOD

town?

10:07amJesse

Gravina

where the dig is

its small

10:08amPOD

have you been having a great time?

10:08amJesse

i've explored it all already

ya

italy is awsome

im just getting really sick of some of the peeps i live with

10:08amPOD

oh, that happens.

10:08amJesse

like i avoid human interaction now

10:08amPOD

will you see them back at school too?

10:08amJesse

i fucking hate them

sooo much

10:08amPOD

omg

sounds bad

10:08amJesse

theres only one girl i like

10:09amPOD

are you drunk (thinking about my own bout of angry drunken-ness)

(just-asking)

wow, don't leave me yet

Molly has a cold

10:09amJesse

besides her the other americans didn't vote for Obama cause he 'seemed to hide something and jermiah write'

10:10amPOD

Dumb!

10:10amJesse

i know

10:10amPOD

what are archeology students retarded?

10:10amJesse

i got soo pissed on the 4th

10:10amPOD

Dirt = Republican?

I broke my arm on the 4th!

10:11amJesse

what?

that sucks

are you ok?

10:11amPOD

Riding bikes with your dad

10:11amJesse

ow shittty

10:11amPOD

I slipped in gravel and hit the mountain. We were up here in the mountains, riding

but no cast.

10:11amJesse

shit

10:11amPOD

It hurts a bit but not the end of the world.

(yet)

why did you get pissed on the 4th?

did you get into a verbal altercation?

10:12amJesse

Americans suck

10:12amPOD

hahaha

we don't all suck

(are you drunk?)

10:13amJesse

no

I had a corona

10:13amPOD

oh, that's nothing - lightweight!

10:13amJesse

i have to go to a really facùncy dinner soon (I think he meant FANCY)

10:13amPOD

are you hot after that girl?

oh, yum. (referring to fancy dinner)

are you sick of the food yet?

10:14amJesse

haha

maybe and no

she's really cool

and lives 20 min from boston

10:14amPOD

that's good

one person you can comiserate with

Molly is working at the boardwalk -- did she tell you?

10:15amJesse

no - thats lame

10:15amPOD

One day she came home smelling like cotton candy. I nearly puked

10:16amJesse

haha

ew

10:17amPOD

so you aren't bored, you are keeping busy, the food is okay? You hate Americans?

10:18amPOD

Are you still there?

Should I call your dad and ask him if he has anything he wants to tell you? (hopeful that I'd get to call Chris)

10:19amJesse

naw i g2g

i called him earlier

yesterday

10:19amPOD

okay, did you talk to him?

10:19amJesse

no, it was 8 am

time difference sucks

anyway foods wonderful and amazing

10:20amPOD

do you have any messages you want me to give them?

10:20amJesse

Italian rock

I love them and you

10:20amPOD

molly, dad, dude? (Jesse's cat)

10:20amJesse

send my love

btw, im growing a beard

10:20amPOD

I love you too, Jesse, Take good care and don't have too much hate. It causes cancer.

10:20amJesse

Pictures on the 22nd of august

10:20amPOD

Oh, me too,... growing a beard.

10:20amJesse

haha

10:21amPOD

hah!

10:21amJesse

oh, and did dad send my camera charger

?

10:21amPOD

I dunno. I'll ask.

10:21amJesse

i asked molly to get him to do it

10:21amPOD

should I ask now? or send you a msg?

10:21amJesse

cause i cant use my camera

i talked to her to send asap

i hope she did cause its supposed to take like a week

10:21amPOD

I will tell him

okay.

10:22amJesse

and im leaving for Rome in a week from sunday

ok, love ya

bye

10:22amPOD

love you too.

have fun!

4 comments:

Patty said...

Oh, that was so fun to read! Sounds like a great relationship. Good luck with the beard. :-)

Dr. J said...

That's great, POD!

Interestingly enough, one of my good friends just received his degree from U.F. in archeology!

He's also a wonderful young man, and a pleasure to know!

PS He taught me to use the speed bag :-)

the Bag Lady said...

Jesse sounds like a very cool kid!

I hope you'll post pictures of your beard.

the Bag Lady said...

Too funny -- my word verification on that last comment was "idaly"!

This one is "chine". Think that's where Jesse will head next?